Unique (and cute) gay date ideas
You want to treat your BF or hubby to a special date but don’t have the money. Never despair! Here are 30 fabulous gay dates to share with your man when your wallet’s thin.
Listen in for some unique date ideas during quarantine:
Gay date idea #1: Do a spa night
How about we dial down the temperature a bit on the man-on-man action unless you’ve got some adventurous rubber duckies ready to join the party? But hey, if you’re both game for a naked spa date, make sure to watch out for those bath crystals – you don’t want to turn the tub into a giant fizzing potion accidentally! And remember, a mutual massage is all fun and games until someone discovers they’re ticklish in unexpected places. So lather up, scrub down, and let the good times roll.
Maybe keep the rubber duckies on standby for now.
Gay date idea #2: Go to a local coffee shop
How about cozying up in your local gay or lesbian coffee shop for a brew-tiful time? Whether you’re sipping on a latte or a cappuccino, it’s the perfect excuse to get your caffeine fix and support the rainbow community at the same time. Plus, who knows what kind of frothy delights you might whip up in the conversation department?
And hey, if you’re lucky, you might score a sweet deal with a Groupon for some coffee and canvas action – because nothing says romance like getting artsy with a brush in one hand and a cup of joe in the other. Just make sure your brush strokes are as smooth as your flirting game!
First Date Worthy: As for the first date potential, setting a time limit is a stroke of genius. It’s like speed dating without the awkward bell ringing. So go ahead, sip, chat, and if the chemistry’s brewing, you can always extend your “coffee break” with a perfectly timed text excuse.
Gay date idea #3: Go ice skating at night
Ah, nothing says “winter romance” like gliding gracefully across the ice or, in my case, attempting not to faceplant with style. Grab your hubby or BF’s hand and prepare for a day of ice-skating shenanigans! Whether you’re pulling off your best triple axel or just trying to stay upright, it’s all about the bonding experience.
Now, after a day on the ice, your muscles might feel as wobbly as Bambi’s first steps. But fear not! It’s time to put those negotiation skills to the test and score yourselves a discount on couples massages. Who knew that haggling could be such a romantic gesture? So get ready to knead out those knots and soothe those sore muscles – try not to giggle too much when your partner hits that ticklish spot.
Gay date idea #4: Cook dinner together
Why not turn up the heat on your gay date night with a culinary adventure? Sure, you could raid the fridge and whip up a masterpiece with whatever’s lurking in the back, but where’s the fun in that? Instead, impress your date with some chef-prepped, gourmet delights delivered straight to your doorstep. Who knew you could outsource your cooking skills and still be hailed as a kitchen hero?
Now, while your fancy feast is heating up, why not crank up the tunes and bust out some moves? Because nothing says “romantic dinner” like a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen. Just be careful not to knock over the soufflé while you’re twirling your way to culinary bliss.
Gay date idea #5: Workout together
Ah, the classic gym flirtation – where spotting each other takes on a whole new meaning! But who said you need to be in a committed relationship with the gym when you can have a steamy session at home?
Forget awkward encounters with sweaty strangers and the eternal struggle to find a parking spot closer to your gym’s front door. Instead, turn your family room into a makeshift workout arena. After all, it’s much easier to transition from push-ups to passionate embraces when your bed is just a hop, skip, and jump away.
So why settle for just a workout when you can have a lifetime of health, fitness, and, ahem, extra-curricular activities? It’s the ultimate combination of cardio and cuddles.
Gay date idea #6: Do a couple’s vision board
Ah, the annual vision board extravaganza – where dreams are crafted, goals are set, and scissors are wielded like weapons of artistic creation! But why stop at traditional magazine clippings when you can take your vision-boarding game to the next level with a sprinkle of tech magic?
Picture this: you and your partner, armed with laptops, tablets, and a whole lot of creativity, diving headfirst into the digital realm of vision boarding. Forget about glue sticks and magazine scraps – it’s all about drag-and-drop, copy-paste, and pixel-perfect placement.
And hey, who says vision boarding has to be a solo endeavor? Team up with your significant other to craft the ultimate power couple vision board. From world domination to mastering the art of synchronized Netflix binging, the possibilities are as endless as your WiFi connection.
So grab your gadgets, unleash your inner visionaries, and get ready to manifest your dreams with a touch of tech-savvy flair. After all, why settle for the ordinary when you can digitally design your destiny?
Gay date idea #7: Go to yoga together
The ancient art of yoga is where downward dog takes on a whole new meaning, and stretching becomes the ultimate prelude to bedtime shenanigans! Who knew that a little bit of yoga could add some extra oomph to your nocturnal activities with your boy?
So roll out your mat, crank up the heat, and prepare for a sweat-inducing, stretch-tastic workout session. Not only will you be bending like a pretzel in no time, but you’ll also be gaining some severe flexibility for those more intimate moments later on.
The best part? You don’t even have to leave the comfort of your own home! There’s no need to worry about awkward encounters in the gym locker room or fighting for space in a crowded yoga class. It’s just you, your mat, and a whole lot of potential for some bedtime fun.
So strike a pose, stretch those loins, and get ready to unleash your inner yogi—because flexibility is key to bedtime workouts.
Gay date idea #8: Challenge another couple to a game night
What’s better with four or six men than just two? Game night, obviously! What, were you expecting something else? 😉
Gather your squad and prepare for a couple’s date night filled with friendly competition and maybe a few heated debates over who cheated in Monopoly (we’re looking at you, sneaky banker).
Rummy Cube is a game of strategy and patience, where every move is a calculated risk, and every victory is sweet, especially if it involves rubbing it in your friends’ faces.
But let’s not forget the granddaddy of all board games – Monopoly. Nothing says friendship like bankrupting your buddies and seizing control of Park Place. Just be prepared for the intensity to rise faster than hotel prices on Boardwalk.
And for the wild ones in the group, there’s no game quite like Cards Against Humanity to bring out the laughs and the gasps. It’s like truth or dares, minus the truth and all about the dare to be hilariously inappropriate.
So gather your gang, roll the dice, and let the games begin – because when it comes to game night, the only thing better than winning is the memories you’ll create along the way.
First Date Worthy: Who needs the pressure of a solo spotlight when you can share the stage with a cast of characters on game night? First date? More like first-rate date night!
Gather your courage, round up your crew (preferably including a few familiar friends to dilute any awkward silences), and get ready for a game night extravaganza. With the attention spread across the board, there’s less chance of your date noticing that embarrassing misstep or that accidental sauce stain on your shirt.
So ditch the nerves, grab a handful of snacks, and prepare to dazzle your date with your mad gaming skills – or at least your ability to laugh at your epic fails. After all, nothing bonds people faster than a shared defeat in Monopoly or a collective fit of laughter over a hilariously inappropriate Cards Against Humanity card.
Who knows? By the night’s end, you might just be thanking your lucky stars for the buffer of friends that turned your first date into a first-rate success.
Gay date idea #9: Hit local landmarks
Who says you need out-of-town guests to play tourist in your own backyard? Grab your main squeeze and embark on a local adventure to explore all your city’s hidden gems and not-so-secret spots. After all, who better to share the thrill of discovering that quirky statue in the park or the surprisingly fascinating history museum than your ride-or-die?
Now, regarding budget-friendly fun, we’re all about finding the best bang for your buck. Stick to the freebies or hunt down those sweet discounts like a pair of bargain-hunting ninjas. Because, let’s face it, saving money is almost as satisfying as stumbling upon an unexpected photo op with a giant rubber duck.
Speaking of photo ops, why not capture the moment with a fun and wacky picture of each other? Strike a pose with that oversized sculpture or pretend to be a knight in shining armor at the local castle (or playground, close enough). Just share your most off-the-wall shots on Instagram – bonus points if you tag us! After all, we love a good laugh and a glimpse into your whirlwind adventures in your backyard.
Gay date idea #10: Go hiking
It’s time to ditch the indoors and embrace the call of the wild! Pack your bags, lace up your hiking boots, and prepare for an outdoor adventure that will have you reaching new heights—both literally and metaphorically.
But here’s the twist: surprise your partner with a lunch that’s as wild as the great outdoors itself. And by “wild,” I mean raiding your fridge and cupboards for whatever odds and ends you can scrounge up. Who knew a can of beans, some leftover pasta, and a few questionable condiments could turn into a gourmet mountain feast?
As you conquer that summit (or just a particularly steep hill), whip out your impromptu picnic and watch your partner’s eyes widen in disbelief – either from the stunning scenery or the sheer audacity of your culinary creations. Hey, nothing says romance like a sandwich made with love (and a hint of desperation).
So grab your backpack, load up on snacks, and get ready for an unforgettable hiking adventure—if not for the breathtaking views, then certainly for the unforgettable lunch that awaits you at the summit.
First Date Worthy: The classic “nature walk” date – where the great outdoors becomes your personal playground and conversation starter. Who needs awkward silences when you’ve got birds chirping, leaves rustling, and the occasional squirrel showdown to keep things interesting?
Picture it: you and your beau, strolling through the wilderness like a modern-day Adam and Steve, bonding over the wonders of nature and trying not to trip over tree roots in the process. With Mother Nature as your wingman, there’s never a dull moment or an awkward pause in conversation.
So lace up those hiking boots, slather on the sunscreen (because sunburn is not a cute look), and get ready for a date that’s as active as it is awe-inspiring. Who knows? You might just discover that your love is as eternal as the majesty of the great outdoors – or at least until the mosquitoes start biting.
Gay date idea #11: Shop a flea market together
Ah, the age-old adage: “One man’s junk is another man’s… treasure hunt!” But hey, let’s keep it clean, folks. We’re on a mission to unearth hidden gems, not dive into the depths of innuendo.
So here’s the deal: turn your bargain hunting into a full-blown competition. Who can find the most interesting, outrageous, or downright absurd “best buy” for the lowest price? It’s like a real-life scavenger hunt but with the added thrill of potentially stumbling upon a unicorn-shaped teapot or a vintage disco ball for your living room.
But remember, folks, it’s not just about finding the cheapest deal – it’s about finding the most memorable one. So whether you’re scouring flea markets, rummaging through thrift stores, or haggling with street vendors, keep your eyes peeled for that one-of-a-kind find that’ll have everyone talking for years to come.
And hey, if all else fails, at least you’ll have some hilarious stories to share over drinks later. After all, who needs expensive designer labels when you’ve got a lamp shaped like a llama?
Gay date idea #12: Color adult coloring books together
Who knew that coloring could be the ultimate warm-up to sexy time? It’s like the pre-game show before the main event – except with crayons instead of cheerleaders.
So crank up the tunes, uncork that bottle of wine, and get ready to unleash your inner Picasso. With every stroke of the crayon, you’re not just creating a masterpiece—you’re priming your creative juices for whatever comes next. And hey, if what comes next happens to involve a little extracurricular activity, who are we to judge? After all, they say creativity is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
And let’s not forget the best part: coloring is practically free! So go ahead, indulge in as many coloring sessions as your heart desires, and save those pennies for a rainy day (or a particularly extravagant date night). Because when it comes to romance, sometimes the simplest activities are the most memorable—especially when they lead to some colorful adventures in the bedroom.
Gay date idea #13: Do a picnic on the living room floor
Who needs a fancy restaurant when you can have a carpet picnic extravaganza right in your own living room? It’s like a gourmet adventure without the hassle of making reservations or wearing pants.
So raid your fridge and pantry like a culinary treasure hunter because, let’s face it, we all have that random assortment of food just begging to be turned into a feast fit for kings (or at least for two hungry lovebirds).
That last spoonful of jelly? Consider it the pièce de résistance of your cheese platter. And don’t even get me started on that lone pickle lurking in the jar – it’s practically begging to be transformed into a sophisticated hors d’oeuvre, complete with toothpicks for that extra touch of class.
But wait, there’s more! That stale bread? Toast it up, and voilà, you’ve got yourself some fancy homemade croutons for your salad. And who can resist a dessert of sliced apples and berries? It’s like nature’s candy but with bonus health points.
And if you really want to splurge, forget about fancy appetizers or decadent desserts – splurge on the wine. Because let’s be real, no carpet picnic is complete without a little liquid courage to toast to your culinary ingenuity and, of course, to each other. Cheers to love, laughter, and making the most out of what’s hiding in the back of your pantry.
Gay date idea #14: Play a sex game
Ah, game night just got a whole lot steamier with the addition of sex dice! Because who doesn’t love a little spontaneity mixed with a dash of chance and a sprinkle of glow-in-the-dark fun? It’s like playing Yahtzee, but with a much more satisfying reward at the end.
With these magical dice, you never know who’s gonna get what – and that’s half the excitement! Just roll the dice and let fate (and your wild imagination) take the wheel. Sure, some combinations might leave you scratching your head at first, but once you loosen up and get creative, the real fun begins. And who knew that “Lick Thigh” could be the start of an unforgettable evening?
Let’s not forget about Truth or Dare—the OG of risqué party games. But why stop at Truth or Dare when you can take it to the next level with Truth or Dare Cards for Couples? Madonna would be proud.
So embrace your inner game master, roll those dice, and prepare for a night of laughter, love, and maybe a little more action than you bargained for. After all, who said game night had to be all about board games and snacks? It’s time to spice things up and roll the dice on romance.
Gay date idea #15: Have an evening of playful sex
Don’t tiptoe around it like it’s some awkward secret mission! Embrace it with the enthusiasm of a kid in a candy store. Who says sex can’t have a bit of logistical planning, huh? Pick a day, mark it on the calendar in bold, grab your gadgets and gizmos, queue up your favorite tunes, and if you’re feeling fancy, throw on some Netflix in the background for that extra cinematic touch. It’s DIY romance at its finest, and hey, it won’t break the bank either. So, go ahead, be the CEO of your own pleasure itinerary.
Gay date idea #16: Take a dance class together
Oh, you caught us red-handed! We’ve binge-watched those adorable dance duets more times than we care to admit. It’s like a never-ending loop of “aww” mixed with envy. But fear not, my friend, for there’s hope for us mere mortals! Turns out, those dance floor dynamos didn’t just pop out of the womb doing the salsa; they actually took some classes. Yes, you heard it right: there are sanctuaries of dance scattered across the land where even the most rhythmically challenged can find their groove. So, strap on those dancing shoes and prepare to unleash your inner Fred and Ginger…or, should I say, your inner fabulously coordinated Facebook sensation.
Gay date idea #17: Bar hop the gay bars
Ah, the art of thriftiness meets the science of social lubrication.
Here’s the deal: stick to the one-drink wonder strategy to keep your wallet as plump as your dance moves. Or, if you’re feeling extra frugal or just a tad shy about divvying up drinks, remember the golden rule: sharing is caring, even if it means taking turns sipping from the same glass like some modern-day Romeo and Juliet. And when the night reaches its glorious crescendo, don’t forget your chariot awaits! Lyft, Uber, or maybe even a friendly donkey if you’re feeling adventurous. Just get home safe and sound, preferably without unplanned detours through the city park fountain.
Gay date idea #18: Do a puzzle together
Looking for a date idea that’s both intellectually stimulating and an excuse not to make eye contact during those awkward conversations? Look no further than the humble jigsaw puzzle! It’s the ultimate team-building exercise where you can show off your puzzle prowess while discussing life’s mysteries without the pressure of maintaining constant eye contact. Who knew that a 1,000-piece landscape could be the ultimate wingman? So, grab your guy, grab a puzzle, and get ready for a date night where the only thing getting pieced together is the puzzle, not your nerves.
Gay date idea #19: Hit up your local drag show
Let’s spread some love and glitter to our fabulous local queens. They’re out there, working their stilettos off, so it’s time we show them some appreciation. Now, when it comes to budgeting at the bar, remember, it’s all about maximizing the fun without draining your bank account dry. So, limit yourself to just one drink – because, let’s face it, those rainbow-colored cocktails can add up quicker than you can say, “Yas queen!”
Then, it’s homeward bound for a movie marathon fit for royalty! Queue up Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Birdcage, and A Star is Born on Amazon Prime or iTunes. It’s the perfect recipe for a night of laughter, tears, and maybe a spontaneous sing-along or two. And hey, if you want to streamline your life and save a few bucks in the process, why not join the Amazon Prime party? Not only do you get access to a treasure trove of LGBTQ movies and other entertainment goodies, but you also score discounts at Whole Foods and get groceries delivered straight to your door – because who has time to grocery shop when a drag queen movie marathon is waiting?
First Date Worthy: Let the queens entertain you. This way, you have a lot to laugh about, and there will never be a dull moment.
Gay date idea #20: Learn something together
Forget the dusty old library stereotype – those bookworm havens are like treasure troves of hidden gems. Slide on your reading glasses and stroll over to your local library for some classes that’ll make your brain feel as juiced up as a Jamba Juice smoothie. If you prefer to learn with a side of pajamas and snacks, hop online to Udemy or Teachable. It’s like going to school in your comfiest sweats, except there’s no dress code and the only detention you’ll get is from hitting the “pause” button too many times. So, whether you’re brushing up on your underwater basket weaving skills or diving into the mysteries of quantum physics, there’s a class out there just waiting for you to become its scholarly superhero.
Gay date idea #21: Find something fun, free & cheap in your local gay rag
Ready to spice up your social calendar? If you’re lucky enough to reside in a place with a pulse – yes, even those quaint little towns with more cows than people – chances are there’s a local gay rag waiting to be your guide to all things fabulous. Flip through those glossy pages faster than a drag queen changes outfits, and voilà, you’ve got yourself a roadmap to free or dirt-cheap events that’ll make your wallet do a happy dance. These magazines are like the Holy Grail of queer happenings, the Rosetta Stone of rainbow revelry. So whether you’re into drag brunches, LGBTQ+ film festivals, or just looking for an excuse to wear your rainbow sequin boa to a bingo night, these trusty rags have got you covered like SPF 50 at a beach party.
Some rags to research:
- Out Front in Denver
- Rage Monthly in Southern California
- Metrosource in NYC
- EPGN for Philadelphia
- Peach in Atlanta
- OutSmart in Houston
- Gay Desert Guide
- Los Angeles Blade
- New Englands Rainbow Times
- Out and About in Nashville
- Pride Guide Arizona
- Qurb Magazine in Seattle
- Lavender in Minneapolis
Gay date idea #22: Make a video telling everyone why you love each other
Get ready to unleash your inner rom-com star and make your love story go viral faster than a cat video! It’s time to break out the virtual megaphone and shout your love from the digital rooftops. Fire up Facebook Live, InstaStory, TikTok, or YouTube Live – heck, why not all four? – and let the world know just how much you’re head over heels for each other. It’s like a modern-day fairy tale, except you have a smartphone and a Wi-Fi connection instead of a magic wand. So gather ’round, social media fam, because you’re about to witness a love story so sweet, it’ll give you cavities just watching it.
Gay date idea #23: Spend the whole day in bed
Who says the fun stops when the lights go out? Sometimes, the real party is just getting started – and it doesn’t always involve, ahem, adult activities. Picture this: you and your partner, snuggled up like burritos under the covers, with nothing but your trusty laptop or tablet and a whole universe of videos at your fingertips. It’s like Netflix and chill, minus the chill, because let’s be honest, who needs Netflix when you’ve got each other? But wait, there’s more! When you’re done binging the latest cat memes or conspiracy theory documentaries, why not break out the journals and get your introspection on? Forget the plain ol’ notebooks; we’re talking journals so fancy they practically come with their own red carpet. It’s like therapy but with more pillows and fewer awkward silences. So, grab your comfiest PJs and prepare for a night of snuggles, screens, and self-discovery.
Gay date idea #24: Send each other sexy texts
When distance makes the heart grow fonder, it’s time to bring out the big guns – or should I say the big puns! If you and your sweetheart find yourselves on opposite ends of the world (or just opposite ends of town), fear not, for technology is here to save the day. Get those thumbs flexing and send each other some spicy texts hotter than a jalapeño in a sauna. Let your creativity run wild, whether it’s wordsmith wizardry, saucy selfies, or a full-blown video production starring you as the leading role. And when the stars finally align, and you’re in each other’s arms once again, it’ll be like fireworks on the Fourth of July – except instead of fireworks, it’s, well, you get the idea.
Boom indeed!
Gay date idea #25: Make cookies or cake together
Ah, yes, the age-old dilemma: to bake or not to bake? Well, let me tell you, folks, there’s no need to reinvent the wheel or knead the dough (unless you’re into that sort of thing). Whether you’re whipping up a savory sensation or a sweet treat, the kitchen is your playground, and it’s time to bring the heat! But hey, if the thought of measuring flour and cracking eggs makes you break out in a cold sweat faster than a turkey on Thanksgiving, fear not! There’s no shame in taking the shortcut route – after all, even the pros have their cheat days. So go ahead, channel your inner culinary genius, or just channel the delivery guy. Either way, it’s bound to be a delicious adventure.
Gay date idea #26: Go to your local sex shop
The age-old tradition of the great sex shop expedition – it’s like a treasure hunt, but instead of gold doubloons, you’re on the hunt for… well, let’s just say it’s more adult-oriented booty. Set your budget – because hey, even treasure hunters need to be financially responsible – and prepare to dive headfirst into a world of tantalizing possibilities. Who knows, just being in the vicinity might be enough to revive those engines. And hey, if you walk out empty-handed, no worries! Consider it a reconnaissance mission for future endeavors. After all, the real treasure is the memories you make along the way… and maybe a few unexpected giggles in the process.
Gay date idea #27: Watch a foreign movie on Hulu
Alright, folks, it’s time to fire up the ol’ Hulu and spice up your watchlist with some cinematic delights that’ll make your heart race faster than a toddler after a candy bar. Dive into the world of gay cinema and discover a treasure trove of titles that’ll have you both reaching for the popcorn and each other’s hands. From the drama-packed Free Fall to the charming First Girl I Loved, there’s something for every mood and occasion. And let’s not forget the tantalizing Tom of Finland and the divine I Am Divine – because who doesn’t love a little eye candy and drag royalty? But wait, there’s more! With Hulu, you’re not just limited to LGBTQ+ flicks; you also get exclusive access to binge-worthy shows like The Handmaid’s Tale, Killing Eve, and even a blast from the past with Designing Women. So if you’re not already part of the Hulu club, what are you waiting for? At just $7.99 a month, it’s the best bargain this side of the rainbow.
Gay date idea #28: Go sledding
It’s time to unleash your inner child and embrace the wonders of winter like you’re auditioning for a remake of “Frozen” – minus the talking snowman, of course. Build a snow fort, engage in a friendly snowball fight, or heck, why not attempt a snow angel that looks more like a snow… blob? Then, when you’ve had your fill of frosty fun, it’s back home to defrost in the coziest way possible: a shared bath that’ll warm you up faster than a microwave burrito. It’s like a romantic rendezvous meets a rubber ducky convention – because who said bath time was just for kids? So go ahead, splash around, make some waves, and let the bubbles work their magic. Winter may be chilly, but your hearts (and toes) will be toasty warm in no time.
First Date Worthy: Who needs the stress of a first date when you can dodge snowballs instead? Outdoor activities are perfect icebreakers – tons to do, lots to talk about, and everyone’s having a blast. No awkward one-on-one convos here! And who knows? While you’re out there catching snowballs, you might just catch his heart too.
Gay date idea #29: Build a fort in your living room
Channel your inner 9-year-old and unleash your architectural genius by building the ultimate fortress. Deck it out with pillows, blankets, and maybe even a few strategically placed stuffed animals for good measure. Then sit back, relax, and watch as your date tries to crack the code and infiltrate your impenetrable fortress. It’s like a real-life game of “Capture the Flag,” except the only thing at stake is your pride – and maybe a few bragging rights if you manage to outwit your opponent. So grab your building blocks and get ready to defend your territory like the pint-sized general you were always meant to be.
Gay date idea #30: Go thrifting
Ready to unleash your inner fashionista without breaking the bank? Challenge your date to a style showdown and see who can assemble the most fabulous outfit for just $25. It’s like “Project Runway,” but with a budget tighter than skinny jeans after Thanksgiving dinner. And hey, if you play your cards right, you might just get to see each other strip down to your skivvies – talk about a runway finale! For those who struggle with creativity, fear not! These budget-friendly gay date ideas are here to save the day and ensure you have a blast without blowing your budget. After all, if he’s truly worth it, he’ll be more interested in spending time with you than splurging on expensive outings. So grab your $25 and get ready to strut your stuff – because fabulousness knows no price tag.
STD: Sex, treats and dates
Sure, sex, games, and dates are all part of the fun, but let’s talk about the ultimate relationship investment: money talks. No, not the kind that involves awkwardly splitting the bill at dinner, but the kind where you sit down and chat about your financial futures. Studies suggest that couples who openly discuss money not only have better sex – yep, you heard that right – but also experience less financial stress, improved mental health, and overall better money management. So, while pillow talk may be great, consider adding a little budget banter to the mix. Who knows? You might find that financial intimacy is the key to unlocking a new level of relationship bliss.
Why gay dating is so expensive
The perennial topic of Queer Money® is the financial maze of the gay dating scene. It’s no secret that historically, we queer folk have taken our sweet time to settle down, often trailing behind our straight counterparts in the race to the altar. Who needs marriage when you’ve got an endless carousel of dates, right? Well, it turns out that perpetual dating – whether you’re LGBTQ+ or not – can come with its own set of financial repercussions. From the endless stream of dinners and drinks to the never-ending quest for the perfect outfit, it’s easy to see how the costs can add up faster than you can say, “I’ll Venmo you later.” But fear not, dear daters, for there’s hope on the horizon! If you’re looking to pad your pockets for more fabulous nights out, why not consider starting your gay blog? Not only does it offer a creative outlet for sharing your unique experiences and insights, but it also has the potential to become a lucrative side hustle. So grab your laptop and get ready to dive into the world of queer blogging – because who knows? You might just make a difference in the community while lining your pockets in the process. And hey, what’s more attractive than financial independence, am I right?
A summary of gay dating
- As the world gets smaller with social media, the desire to fly to see someone becomes costly
- Relationships that come out of dating apps are more stable and last longer than traditional relationships because the “screening process” is more rigorous
- 60% of relationships today sprout from dating apps
- Traditional rules still apply with straight dating in that the man pays for the first date; afterward, the dynamic changes based on the circumstances; younger generations go Dutch
- In gay relationships, it’s usually the person with the money who pays, typically uncovered before the first date
- There are the “baby-steppers” who ease into relationships and the “converts” who go too far
- Finances are only one aspect of relationships, and often, what someone brings is more than monetary
- Technology has expanded the dating pool beyond arm’s reach
Gay dating conclusion
- Don’t make money a taboo subject; talk about money early
- Do your online homework to the extent that you can
- Address financial disparity concerns early
- If someone is defensive about money, maybe there’s a concern – be cautious
- Gay couples should get creative with dating – the 30+ ideas above are a great start
The age-old struggle of balancing our love lives with our bank accounts is like trying to juggle flaming torches – exhilarating, yet potentially disastrous if you’re not careful. And let’s face it, we gay men and the LGBTQ+ community as a whole have our unique relationship with money. But fear not, dear daters, for there’s hope on the horizon! While it’s tempting to go all out and splurge on extravagant dates with our newfound loves, keeping one eye on the budget is essential – because nothing kills the mood faster than a maxed-out credit card. So, as tempting as it may be to shower your new beau with gifts and gourmet dinners, remember to keep it accurate and within your means. After all, true love isn’t measured in dollar signs but in shared moments and meaningful connections. So go ahead, woo your man with charm and wit – maybe leave the champagne fountain for another day.